Olen saanut nimen sille, mikä minussa on rikki. Häpeä. "It came as a tremendous revelation and a powerful epiphany when I realized that shame was the name of the inner void I had felt for years and never understood."
Häpeä on se, mikä minun pitää parantaa.
"...shame as a feeling that we are in some way fundamentally flawed or not good enough, and are, as a result, not worthy of love and belonging. Shame involves a deep fear of disconnection, a fear that there is some part of us that, if it were truly seen by others, then it would guarantee that they would neither accept nor love us. Shame is the name of the feeling that we are not good enough."
https://www.google.fi/amp/s/philosophadam.wordpress.com/2014/10/16/silencing-the-praise-why-seeking-approval-fails-to-fill-our-inner-void/amp/
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